FUN SEX OR DEEP SEX? ARE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ON THE SAME PAGE?

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On the road to orgasm, I think it’s important that you and your partner know where you both are coming from. If you’re in a playful, “let’s-get-hot” mood and she’s in a more relaxed, romantic mood, or vice-versa, you might encounter a bit of tension. It makes sense that two people will not always be in the same kind of mood, with the same exact expectations of how, where, or what they want to do for sex. Fortunately, Mother Nature didn’t make us all alike (identical twins aside), so from the get-go, two people are not going to have exactly the same sex drives or attitudes, and even identical twins have very different preferences.

 

Further complicating this situation, the number of demands and stresses we all have to deal with on a daily basis underscores the need for couples to be up-front about where they are and what they need sexually. 
The suggestions below will help you both clear your heads and, at the very least, give you a way of finding out what is going on with each other. 

Opening the Channels 

When you think of orgasm as the one and only goal of sex, you greatly limit yourself as regards the overall sensations of sex. Do more than that! The more you involve your entire body in sex, the more likely you will open other avenues of pleasure and sensation. 

Keeping it Spontaneous 

If you have been together for five months, five years, or forty-five years, you know that both people need to work at keeping the sexual relationship new and fresh, and the biggest thing that keeps sex fresh is your attitude. Quite simply, you have to make intimacy and private time together a priority. You have to do this consciously; even scheduling sex is allowed in an aging relationship. 


As life and research have shown, you have to stick to some sort of a timetable to keep all the machinery of a family running. The same is true for sex. By making it part of your day or morning  you not only have sex, but you and your partner will connect better and all other aspects of your life will likely fall into place.

 

During the longest time you live, never forget that sex is a vital priority in your relationship. The truth is, the threat of boring sex can freeze people internally, so says author LOU PAGET in his book : “Orgasm : Have to Have Them To..”

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