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Men love, love, love to orgasm orally! So how do we bridge the gap between this very real male pleasure and some women’s hesitation or disinclination to do this for their men?
In all the years Lou Paget says he has been speaking to women in seminars about their sexual experiences, it is clear there is one obvious distinction between those women who enjoy performing oral sex on their lovers and those...
All husbands, and by implication, all wives or partners, say hurtful things to themselves from time to time. It’s tempting to retaliate by jabbing him or her back. Unfortunately, that sets you up for a full-blown fight where you both walk away wounded.
If you can avoid ” hitting” him or her back, you’ll steer clear of further injury on both sides and raise the level of kindness in...
This is life. There will always be difficult people, it doesn’t matter whether you met in church or at work place or night club, it doesn’t guarantee anything. A Character is like a DNA… So how do we handle such an unfortunate introduction into our lives?
Chiswell Freeman, adds voice to the debate, says, “Emotional health is contagious, and so is emotional distress. But if you’re fortunate...
On the road to orgasm, I think it’s important that you and your partner know where you both are coming from. If you’re in a playful, “let’s-get-hot” mood and she’s in a more relaxed, romantic mood, or vice-versa, you might encounter a bit of tension. It makes sense that two people will not always be in the same kind of mood, with the same exact expectations of how, where, or what...
When it comes to making love, men are very much like women. Affection and care are paramount. Making love is not just a matter of reaching physical satisfaction. It also involves two people who are helping each other achieve emotional and spiritual fulfillment. When you have made love, there’s a feeling of having given and having received. Making love is not a mere physical thing; having sex is, however.
Unfortunately,...
According to Brenda Love, author of the Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices, an aphrodisiac is ” a chemical that increases or enhances sexual desire and stamina.” The term comes from Aphrodite, the Greek Goddess of Love and Beauty.
Aphrodisiacs have taken the shape of food or drink, herbs or spices, charms or rituals, drugs, homeopathic remedies, flower essences, or aroma. The bottom...
Woah! Thanks for hooking up to “yourecstasy” and welcome to the new month of August. You’ve probably guessed what I’m about to say. Well, it’s all about the fact that MIND-BLOWING sex does not occur in only one position or manner, much less is it tied strictly to intercourse in the missionary position, so says Lou Paget in her book “Orgasms”. And I concur absolutely....
This is referred to as the sensual massage primer. This move is best used as a form of foreplay when you’re trying to arouse each other before involving your genitalia. Using both hands, gently but steadily apply pressure to the different parts of the body. I think it’s always best to start at the top and work down towards the feet.
However, don’t include the groin area for either of...
We all carry “baggage” from our past into our sexual relationships, unfortunately. Possibly we have been miseducated, inhibited by religious training, abandoned, or , most often, still plagued with painful memories of rejection by a previous lover. All of these things tend to plant false ideas in our minds, which damage us sexually and invariably make us wary of future encounters.
This...
It’s authors, Don Migue RUIZ JR. and Heatherash AMARA, in their book, enunciated these three little words “HAPPILY EVER AFTER” so that an entire universe of expectations about relationships is created. Through this fairy-tale concept and others like it, the idea is planted in our minds that once we have a committed relationship, our lives will be perfect , and we will have finally “arrived”...